The Art of Seduction

Seduction can often be a tricky business as there can be so many different criteria to consider. Therefore it is probably best to refine the process into some key areas that you should give your full attention.

First we should begin with the right person. This is generally based on two categories, instinct, or current level of inebriation. If you fall into the first category it’s simply a case of moving forward with your award winning personality and dashing smile. However if confidence is an issue because you’re not happy with the way you look, and even more concerned with who you are on the inside, hit the sauce.

Cerveza is the close friend that gives you that little push forward, it doesn’t give you ifs and buts; it’s simply a yes man. There is a myth that it affects decision making ability, as well as causing the consumer to become disorientated and incapable of appraising the target of attraction. This is yet to be confirmed by modern science, testing is ongoing.

Now – we have the person to seduce. Its important to decide whether it’s a good idea to go all out from the get go, or play the long game allowing you more time to decided if this person is right for you.

If you find yourself in an alley behind a club within the first 10 minutes of meeting, I’m guessing you’re not in uncharted territory and should either wrap the tool, or get out quickly; tell them you’re on the brink of soiling yourself. It can’t miss.

Obtaining their contact details and arranging a later meeting is probably your best bet, as this gives you opportunity to prepare and get the conditions right.

The stage is set, hopefully your outing is going well, but you’ve hit a snag, just how do you know if your dates interested? Your best clues can often come from reading their body language. Interpretation is very important; one thing can mean quite the opposite. Do they keep checking her watch? They’re probably baking you a cake. Did they vanish to the toilet for a good 20 minutes? Probably just freshening up their downstairs mix up. Don’t worry its going well. Eye contact is also a dead give away, if they reciprocate your long gaze, it’s a clear sign they could be interested, or it could be a Jedi mind trick so have a heavy object in hand at all times!

Once you’re made it clear you’re attracted to them, you’ll need to let your beloved know where the encounter is heading. People have very different interpretations of sex; make sure you’re both on the same page. A suitable approach is more likely to achieve better results. Try to avoid direct questions, don’t just come straight out with “I’d hit that”. Drop subtle questions and try discussing sex in a light-hearted abstract manner. This creates trust between you both and can put them at ease.

Two people, who may have been attracted to each other visually to begin with, may not have the right chemistry to take it to the next level. If after discussing it a little bit further it becomes clear that your new friend just isn’t the right one for you, disengaging swiftly is paramount. Remember to cancel the reservation at Travel Lodge. You’re probably going to lose your deposit.

On the other hand if it’s going well, have at it. The signals are good; it’s time to make your move. In all probability it will be you, you’ve put in all the initial effort so you’re eager to reap the rewards. If it doesn’t happen to begin with, keep at it. It’s simple maths, the more you try the greater chance you have for success. You can’t argue with maths.

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